Today you get a double does of Mine or Theirs. I never posted E’s crib, so I’m tacking it on with our newest IKEA find. The Lakta lamp.

With E insisting on a light being on every night (that is not her nightlight) in her room at bed time, we have had to search for another low light. We have a floor lamp in there that burns as hot as the surface of the sun, so I don’t like to leave that puppy on in there for any extended period of time. It was never meant to be in there long-term, but alas, nothing new has arrived, so it has remained.

Right before checking out, we whizzed through lighting, and found this petite little girl. How cute is she? She comes in lots of bright colors too! We picked up the yellow one to match E’s room best. Reveal still pending (since I have not yet scheduled with our photographer).

I received the new Land of Nod catalog today, and Lilliput was in there. Looking all smart and similar to Lakta. She just couldn’t beat her price though.

Then there is the crib. Oh this crib. I love this crib. We were having all sorts of problems with our Pottery Barn crib’s slide-down side. It kept flopping down. It really didn’t match E’s new room either, so I was romancing the idea of getting a new one.

When I read about this Baby Mod crib at Wal-mart on a blog months back, I was sold. I ordered online, and was able to pick it up in the store. So, I did not have to pay shipping! Yay. It was a breeze to put together. I think Mr. T. got this sucker up in mere minutes. It does not have the slide down side, which I do not miss at all. It is just as easy to pick up E from the top. It also converts to a toddler bed. Our old one did too, but Ly went straight to a twin, so we never tried with the other one. Not to mention all PB cribs need a conversion kit which costs about $250. Bah to that. This one just has a swapped side door. So easy. Looks so great in her room too.

Images:
Land of Nod Low-Rise Crib

Wal-Mart Baby Mod Modena Crib

Land of Nod Lilliput Lamp

IKEA Lykta Lamp

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I have decided at the ripe old age of 38 to take my first swim lesson. I grew up with a pool in my backyard, so my parents just threw me in with a kick board and hoped for the best. Parents never watched you or put you in classes in the 80′s. You aimlessly wandered your neighborhood until dinner, you made up your own games (there were no toys), and you certainly taught yourself how to swim. I remember that I only used one arm to paddle for at least two years. I was damn fast though. What I lacked in form, I made up for in will.

The hubs started swimming a few months ago, and I longed to try it myself. However, as with everything, I got all hung up on people watching me thinking I didn’t know how to swim, that I wouldn’t be wearing the right goggles, breathe right, or look at all like a real swimmer. Don’t ask me why I am uber self-conscious about absolutely everything I do, but I am. It’s annoying, I know.

Anyway, I finally decided before swimming in any public place, that I would take a master swim class. I was equally terrified of the class. I thought I might drown after one lap, or maybe not make it down for one lap, or forget to take a breath, or not know what side to breathe out of when I did breathe. Then, I freaked about a suit. Ugh. Shopping at Dick’s was a nightmare. None of the sizing made sense, everything seemed to small and short, and after trying on five suits without luck, I just grabbed one, and fled. E was crawling under the door, and running away. She was flapping a lacrosse stick all over the place, then crying for lack of a nap. At one point, I had to run out in the suit to get her. Mortified.

I still don’t think the suit is long enough for my freakishly long torso. It feels a tad pully in the crotch dept. and it’s made of this super thick compression material, so I’m all flattened out (not in a good way) in it. In a way, I feel slightly olympic in it, but that didn’t help my nerves about wearing a real swimmin’ suit for the first time.

Anyway, I ordered another suit that didn’t come before my first lesson, which is why I had to run to Dick’s in the first place. It’s from Sweaty Betty, a British brand that has really amazing stuff. Everything from dance, to yoga, swimming, running, and lounging. It’s chic, well-made, and fits well. Think Lululemon as a more familiar reference. I fell in love with the brand after receiving their catalog last year. I immediately ordered a few of their running shirts, and I just adore them. When I saw somewhat cool lap suits, I jumped on it. There were some complaints about zippering up yourself or adjusting straps without help, but I found that adjusting prior to putting the suit on, which is also what I do with my bras works out just fine. No problems.

Well, the new suit fits great, and is long enough for me! Hurray. It fits snug without being difficult to manage, and it dries quickly post swim.

As for the lessons…I’m doing just fine. My instructor told me my stroke is not bad at all, and that I’m a pretty fast learner on the mastery of each element. I haven’t been told that about anything in a while. I’ve taken three lessons to date, and every week I feel stronger and more confident. I’ve been sick for the last two weeks, and my nose has been super stuffed, so I have felt a little like drowning but I’ve been handling the panic as it comes.

My assessment is to put away your fears and jump in and take a class if you need one, and buy from Sweaty Betty! Here’s a sampling of some suits and other goodies from their collection.

Sweaty Betty Merch

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Closet Wall

It’s actually been months since we did this re-do in E’s room, but alas, I am slow, slow, slow.
I thought I would do a two-part post since I am incapable of posting anything that is a short story on this blog. The second post will show the afters. So, try to contain yourselves for the big reveal.
Since it is 10:35, and I am supposed to be buying poms for my kiddo’s school’s teacher appreciation week, I will try to make this post short(er).

I think these pics speak for themselves. Yes?
When we moved in, the walls in this room were neon yellow and neon green. You can see large patch marks on the wall. I neglected to snap a pic of the huge shelf that was mounted there; so very high on the wall. It was painted high gloss Superman blue. (We also have a superman room–bright red and blue walls–not yet painted).
Oh yes, and to add a little character, the first horizontal blinds ever made were hung in the attractive color of dirty white on the windows. It matched the trim color used throughout the house.

Where to start?
For starters, I became obsessed with horizontal-striped rooms, and was determined to have a striped wall. I bought b + w striped wallpaper to use in our bathroom, but in my wisdom, I bought too little, and bought it going in the wrong direction. (I’m so good at this).

I settled on gray and white stripes we’d paint ourselves. I never paint anything in this house anything but gray or white, so that decision was the easiest.

The first color, (off-white) happened pretty quickly. The stripes didn’t make it on the schedule until about three months later. When I started feeling sorry for this poor baby, stuck in an ivory room with no other color at all. Not one color.

The process of starting was daunting. We knew it would be a measuring nightmare as well as something we had to really take our time with to ensure it came out right. These are both things that me and the Mister aren’t so good at doing. We both hate painting, we hate measuring or figurin’, and we really hate to patiently work through anything. This may or may not be why some of the stripes came out 11″ inches apart, and others up to 14″ apart. Whoopsie.

I combed blogs and DIY sites for the best ways to paint stripes.
I used this one as my first guide, but when I started freaking out about the paint bleeding through the Frog Tape, I read this blog post (and a thousand others), to learn that “sealing” the first (lighter) color is the sure-fire way to avoid the bleed. In short, when you paint the first color, you let it dry. You measure out the lines for the stripes, and then you paint over that tape, essentially sealing the tape, and forcing only the light color to bleed through(if it does indeed bleed, which it always does). That way, when you paint your darker color, there is no chance that it can bleed because the lighter color already created a glue layer on it. Does that make sense?

Ok, back to the measuring. It was a total, and utter NIGHTMARE. This is what DIY sites and bloggers don’t tell you. They act like it’s easy. It is anything but easy. It is the opposite of easy. It is so far from easy that the hubs and I vowed we would never, ever paint stripes again on any wall as long as we ever live. We also made the same vow about wallpapering, and so far, we’ve stuck to it, so suck it striped walls.

Our method of taping/painting was as follows:
1. Measure wall top to bottom
2. Divide by a reasonable number to determine the number of stripes
3. Establish the distance between stripes (which as you know, accidentally changed)
4. Start at top of wall, measure down, then use world’s crappiest laser level to shine the “straight” line down the wall. Problem with this is, unless your walls are perfect, this will never work all the way around. This is how your lines will get screwed up. The level is level at the closest point to the laser, then gets a bit nutty toward the end. Over and over again, you have to compensate somehow for the wall curving and doing what walls do. It’s the absolute worst.
5. Measure, and tape, and lose you sh*t again and again because it seems like it will never end or be right, or meet at the corners. Laugh at each other, yell at each other?, almost pee in your pants when you get to a meeting point and you cannot understand why the lines are about six inches away from one another. Curse a lot.
6. Paint over the lines (as mentioned earlier)
7. Paint darker stripes, which is luckily very quick, and super rewarding when you finally get to it

We love the end result, although there are some pretty wonky stripes on that there wall. When Mr. T put horizontal shelves up, he fell dizzy from the optical illusion that the crooked stripes and straight shelves caused. It’s pretty bad in spots, but that’s what makes a Walter project a Walter project!

We are about ready to mount some wings on the wall, the very wings that inspired an entire room (lavender that time) in our old house (before E was born). I thought of putting them elsewhere in the house, since no one really sees them in E’s room, but they are meant to be with her. Her wings.
Then, a little this and that, and it will be close to done. No room is ever finished right? I would also like to add wall to wall sisal in place of the heinous white plush that covers all the bedrooms. Patience again? Fine!

Shelf Room

Green Yellow Wall Intersect

Green Wall Windows

White Wall Windows

White Walls in E's Room

Changing Table Wall

Door Wall

Gray Crib

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Land's End Canvas Website

I was at Wegman’s near my house two weeks ago spending my usual $150 on nothing special. We were about to leave for our snowboarding trip to Breckenridge, CO, and I was worried that Lyla’s lightweight North Face jacket wouldn’t keep her warm (even though Mr. T assured me it would, and that she is always hot).

Earlier in the season I had received a Land’s End catalog with ski gear, and everything was super expensive, so I didn’t really give it a second thought. In my procrastination, I had not looked online much for another jacket, so I had no alternative for her if it was cold. Luckily, a friend had given Ly a pair of ski pants earlier this winter, so we had that covered. Then I tried her ski gloves on, and they were too small. What the heck!

Next to that Wegman’s there is an in-store Land’s End within the Sears. In the almost ten years we’ve lived here, I have been to that Sears maybe six times for appliances and our treadmill. I always went in that entrance. I had never A) entered through the Land’s End entrance or B) even seen this part of the store.

I decided that day to peek in, and to perhaps stumble across some leftover winter items. This is never the time to shop, because you are desperate and short on time. However, I, being who I am, went in anyway.

Well…I was very surprised and elated at what I saw before me. Let me preface the rest of this by saying that I typically associate Land’s End with mom one-piece bathing suits with criss-cross fronts, wide-leg bermuda shorts, and canvas totes. Although, the kids catalogs were the exception, they always had nice ski stuff and good back-to-school gear. I never really thought about the every day clothes though.

When I walked in, to the immediate left was the “Canvas” section, which appeared to be their younger, fresher, hipper brand. It was merchandised super cute (wish I snapped some pics), and it was easy to shop. There were at least four pairs of pants/jeans I really liked, and some relaxed sweatshirts I could have gobbled up. Some items slanted a bit too junior for me (short tops, circle skirts with eyelet, etc.), but even so, there were some really nice things. I saw two bathing suits I adored, but it was not the time for any of that since my little friend was in town cramping me up.

I had E with me, and she managed to pick up many treasures along our way. There was a display with a dog house and a dog that she felt free to get in, and take off her shoes and coat. She was lying inside “sleeping” when this sales guy found us. He was super nice, and didn’t make me feel like the worst mom ever with my child half disrobed and inside the dog house. He guided me to the kids department, and asked me a bunch of questions about E and shopping at Sears. I loved him, and decided I haven’t been waited on this nicely and genuinely in a really long time. I can’t stand the fake niceties you receive at Nordstrom. Especially in the kid’s shoe department where they know nothing, and think by coming around the counter to deliver your bag to you counts as customer service. I digress.

I breezed past the women’s dept. which was chock full of other lovelies, but with E I had to stay focused. We arrived in the kid’s dept., and I was so very impressed. I immediately found two amazing swim suits for Ly that could have been on J. Crew’s web site. In fact, a lot of the inventory reminded me of Crew Cuts and Boden put together. I then headed to the very sparse winter rack. It had about four ski jackets, two wind breakers, and maybe six pairs of snow pants. I just went right for the tags to see if there was anything in Ly’s size. Boom (goes the dynamite)! One jacket, lime green, totally rad in a size 4-6! La. Dee. Da. I looked at the price, and it said $149 with no mark down or anything else. I knew there was no way in April that this was not on sale. So, I looked above, and there was a tiny 50% off sign above the racks. I never believe a sign, but I snatched it up anyway. You know how you feel when you see something on crazy sale? You feel like all of a sudden, someone is going to find out, and get it before you, so you get all butterfly-in-the stomach about it. I should have bought the one pair of pants they had to too, but again, I needed to keep my eye on the prize. $75 was reasonable but average to other stores (not on sale) prices. This jacket was really nice though, and it has this grow-into technology where you pull the lining down when she gets bigger. A plus.

I hoarded the suits and jacket, and decided to pop into the spring section. Guess what? 30 percent off all spring clothes. I had to look right? I couldn’t choose. There were so many cute things. Things I would wear myself! I felt like an intelligence agent snapping photos, (or maybe just a weirdo) so I only took a few, but they had so much loot in this store!

I will say, the prices are not cheap. I felt like because I was in Sears, it would be, but Land’s End is not inexpensive. Dresses were in the $48 range, shorts $28, tops $20. this isn’t crazy expensive, but it can add up quickly. I decided what essentials I needed, and controlled myself to just get those (I ended up putting back these awesome gray jeans and a boat top last minute to keep on my budget).

There is one central checkout area there, and maybe 15-20 people on three lines. It was a bit crowded, and E was full-on in the sunglasses and jewelry nearby. Well, guess who spotted me on line? My old friend from Canvas. He came right up, and told me to come back over to his section where he would ring me up. Just me. I felt like a celeb. In Sears. He commented on my finds, and congratulated me on my jacket find. I asked him to check the price for me first, just in case. It was 50 percent off plus another 30 percent! Ding ding ding. Jackpot! I even called my husband (who yes, told me not to buy a jacket) because I was so proud of myself. All in all, the whole bundle cost me about $160 with all the discounts, and I think I got a good amount of stuff.

So, friends, please go to your local Sears, Land’s End, or Land’s End web site. I am now a believer in both human kind and this brand.

Land's End Dresses

Land's End Dresses 2

Land's End Jeans

Land's End Tops

Land's End Boat Shirts

Land's End Chambray Shirts and Gauzy Skirts

Land's End Tops and Short

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Oh what a day it was. We had 18 kiddos at our house for an egg dipping party. While it may have been a tad chaotic, it was still fun, and no wine glasses (yes, I used wine glasses for egg dye vessels) were broken during the party. I was super nervous about having so many girls, and I think there were things I did right, and some things I could re-think/approve on next year.

Here’s what I did right:
1. I ordered 200 nuggets from Chick-Fil-A, and all but 8 were consumed! Wow. I got some heat from some husbands who shall remain nameless for ordering so many, and yet, we needed every one. The difference between the medium and large tray is about 100 nuggets, so I had to go big or go home. I went big, and it was worth it.
2. If you present veggies in a fun way, kids will eat it. At E’s 2nd bday, I put tomatoes and cukes in red boxes, and they all went. Today, I made “rabbit food” by placing ranch dressing (I hate ranch dressing, but Marie’s is money) at the bottom of plastic cups, then added spears of carrots and celery inside. The kids loved them, and we only had a few left over. I gauge everything by leftovers.
3. Disguise desserts. I made sugar free chocolate pudding (Jell-o instant) and sugar free whipped cream (from scratch), and no one was the wiser. I added a small piece of raw cacao on the top, and they gobbled it up! I felt like Leo on the railing of the Titanic (King of the World) after this masterpiece.
4. I bought egg cartons for all the kids to take their eggs home. These carrying cases were key to transport and organize eggs. I wish I had boxed them up as kids made them but it was truly a nut house, so it was too hard to keep track but the boxes made it easy for little ones to take away.
5. I stocked up on egg dippers and grabbers. Even though I had six wire ones, and five bunny-shaped scoopers, we were still short! You can imagine the great desire to have your own dipper during such an event.

What I need to improve or re-think:
1. Either the number of eggs I buy increases or the number each kid dips decreases. I bought 150 eggs, and blew out 36 quail eggs. Guess what? In 30 minutes, they were all dyed! Kids were mass dyeing, and the eggs were blowing out faster than a wedding dress at a Filene’s sample sale. If it wasn’t complete mayhem in the egg room, I might encourage our crew to limit the number of eggs to say, 10, then box them up when each kid’s eggs are dry. That would be in a calm, ideal world. Our world was the opposite of that.
2. Reduce the styles of egg dyeing. As usual, I was seduced by the fabulous eggs I found on Pinterest, Martha Stewart and a slew of other blogs. If I were doing this myself, or with maybe five other kids, I would keep the tables with each type of egg (neon, marble, decal, glitter). However, with this number of peeps, it was impossible to either work with them on how to execute or QA the process. Technically, the glitter eggs were to be covered in glue first, then tossed in glitter. Imagine how this would go down with 18 kids under 6. So, I bagged the glue, and they just rolled wet eggs in glitter. Yes, a mess, and a pretty poor looking glitter egg. Guess what table was the most popular though?
3. Plan feeding and seating. We did an ok job here. We pre-loaded all the plates with food, then called the kids into the kitchen. Unfortunately, no place on the first floor of my house can house a larger group. So, we just plopped all the kids on the floor, picnic style. Thanks to my friend Christine for this idea, since kids were roaming aimlessly, and getting tense to seating preferences pretty early on. The picnic solved everything. Even crying, cranky E sat amongst them!
4. Turn the heat down earlier. I lowered the heat right before everyone got there. It was a roaster the whole time. I had to open the front door to cool us off. I was already sweatin’ to the oldies getting this place ready, so I was really hot during the party. So were the moms, all the kids, and our dog. To think, I almost put a fire on. Yikers.
5. Monitor trips upstairs. This is always a challenging thing. It’s hard to prevent kids from going up to Ly’s room, and it’s hard to keep track of what’s happening up there. I typically allow kids all over the house at parties, but I live to regret this decision in most cases. I don’t want to limit fun, but I don’t like the unknown that going up there brings. Toward the end of the party, there were about six girls up there. I was afraid of someone dropping off the top bunk of Ly’s bed, and breaking her head or ass. I’m a tad of a neat freak when it comes to the girl’s rooms, and I hate to say it, but it bothers me when it’s messy in either room. So, I always have a general uneasiness about play in their rooms and the basement which is meant for that! What can I say, we all have our neuroses. Aside from the regular messes, there were about 25 markers uncapped and just as many marker stains in the (white) carpet (that I luckily already hate). Someone, wrote (in marker) on Lyla’s beautiful venetian mirror. When I saw it, I almost had a heart attack. Luckily, the culprit used a window marker and it came right off, but we might not have been that lucky and a $500 mirror would have been autographed by said child for eternity. I guess I would have given to her, so she could admire her own handy work for all time.

All in all, the day was fun-filled, and I think the participants genrally enjoyed themselves. Here are some pics of the set-up prior to guests arriving. Might post some mid-party shots too…

table shot

table shot_stickers and dippers

table shot_scissors

table shot_pins

table shot_dyes

table shot_drying rack

glitter egg table

food table

food table_nuggets

food table_cupcakes

Food table_cupcakes close

egg tree

cookie table

cookie table_side

chair covers close

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When I was a kid, I had an egg dipping party every year. No kid loved egg dipping more than me. I was fiercely competitive as well. I wanted the best egg every year, and felt highly slighted when my mom picked someone else’s egg as winner or runner-up. I used tape, crayon, wax…whatever I could find.

The last few years I have been trying to get Ly into egg dipping. Last year was our best year. She used the crayon, she liked using natural ingredients to make deep, dark colors (I was obsessed and dyed about 100 eggs deep blue and burgundy and crowned myself organic mom of the day).

I told Lyla that she could have an egg party this year. We limited the invite list to girls in her class, so I could keep a handle on the numbers. Too many dippers can be stressful (for mom). She was so tickled. As usual, I didn’t leave myself too much time to plan, so I have been collecting some ideas that are easy for kids, and mom together. I also put a simple invitation together that Ly was able to give to her girlfriends right at school.

Here’s a preview of the paper, and some links I found helpful and cool for the party.

Invite

Name Tags and Egg Labels

Name Tags

Egg Labels

Check these links out for inspiration:

This is a stretch but the results are lovely Golden Marbelized Eggs

The much easier “regular” marbelized egg

We already got the dye for these neon eggs

How about these awesome silk transfer and decal eggs

I got into natural dyes last year

Guess what? Anyone can draw on an egg!

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Two versions of the same card. One masc., one fem. Both simple. You could use these as kid’s or adult calling cards.

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I think the family room is in a state of plateau which makes me sad but I’ve gotta move on. We still need a new chair since our dog Filo got his nails stuck in the seat and it eventually just became a huge hole with foam oozing out of it. So attractive.

We also desperately need a piece for under our picture gallery wall. My biggest pet peeve is the wire nest, random “office” phone, and cable/Tivo/Apple TV boxes. It so reminds of every first apartment where everything extra just ends up on the floor.

I’m on an endless search for this piece of furniture and it might take the rest of my life, so I have to be patient.

I would also like to infuse more color in the way of art but until I can afford my faves from my sister’s store (Zinc Home and Garden), I will have to sit tight.

So, here is the status of the room today.

Family Room Status Quo

Family Room Window Shot

Family Room Pillows

We’ve come a long way since we started (check out this post) but I crave a lot more. Here’s what we have cooking while I marinate on the living room.

Projects on Deck…
Mud room- Since all of our quotes were pretty high to put our cubbies in there, we might have to settle for painting, and adding some new overhead cabinets in there for now, just to make it less horribly ugly and green. We enter this room every day (we don’t use our front door), and it depresses me every day seeing it so ugly.

L+E’s Bathroom- I have it all in my head. Remove builder-special vanities, with floating wood countertops and new sinks, faucets, toilet. Pull out off-white tile, and replace with crazy patterned, large tiles. Paint. Add two stunner light fixtures. We won’t be able to replace our Bath Fitter-esque shower yet, so I’m just trying to create visual impact areas elsewhere. This is what shower curtains are for.

Guest Rooms- Ugh. We are painting the basement guest room, and it looks a million times better already. Was red, is now beigy/gray. Since the carpet in the basement is yellow with black specs in it, it truly makes everything on top of it look worse. So, I am struggling with this room a bit. I need end tables, which is my design kryptonite. I feel incapable of both finding and choosing end tables or night stands. The guest room upstairs is superman red and blue. Paint is needed first and foremost. Enough said.

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As DJ Lance Rock would say, “Hello Friends!” I’m posting a follow-up to the post on the business card options for Elizabeth, the ever clever stylist I’m working on branding for.

If you paid attention in this post, you will remember I mentioned almost forcing her to use gold ink. That we will do. She picked the black paper card with the gold waves on the back. I love this card, and wanted her to pick it from the very beginning! So, imagine my glee in knowing this hot little number was going to become a reality.

Here is the close-up of the card style, as well as the branding concept for the other pieces. Clean, crisp black, white, and gold. How can we go wrong?

Neighoff Business Cards

Neighoff Branding Concept

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It’s not often you get to do business cards and branding for a stylist. It’s a blessing and a curse! You want the opportunity to do something for someone super chic, who helps other people be super chic. However, the pressure is on to make it really great.

Elizabeth always looks good. She’s one of those people who always looks good, and looks good in everything. She’s a Ginger, so color looks amazing on her. When we discussed her cards we immediately went to emerald green, black, and gold. These happen to also be colors often infused into her own colorful wardrobe. For her, I really wanted to go clean and classic. I all but insisted on gold ink. Luckily, she was on board!

I’m sharing some early concepts I put together for her. We have since picked one, and I have subsequently designed other pieces that include invoice templates, note cards, and letterhead.

She chose my favorite, and I am so, so excited to have them printed. Wonder which one it is?

Neighoff Biz Card Options

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